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Re-learning the language of love

The REAL Reason You’re Still Single

Every day I talk to women over Zoom about what’s not working in their love lives right now. They will tell me things like: I can’t meet quality men on my level who I want …

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An Ode To Love

Benjamin Shield. I met him 17 years ago. There was a time when I didn’t think it was possible to meet a man like him. Especially not for me. Given my relationship history, my destructive …

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Share Your Head BEFORE You Share Your Bed

You’re on a date and the chemistry between you is hot. So hot that you find yourself imagining what it …

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Don’t Let This Be YOU!

Remember when you put your mom’s lace handkerchief on your head and then walked down the hallway, step-touch-step-touch with a …

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How and When to Have the Exclusivity Talk

So you’ve been out on a number of dates with a guy. You’ve slept together, you text daily, maybe you …

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Are You Ready to Receive?

If you looked back upon your love life as though it were a research study… …and saw that repeating the …

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An Ode To Love

Benjamin Shield. I met him 17 years ago. There was a time when I didn’t think it was possible to …

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Feel All the Feels

Part of my mission in life is to help you to see that dating, with all of it’s ups and …

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Stop Overreacting and Pushing Men Away

I want to share four actions you can take to stop your reactivity from spiraling out of control and sabotaging …

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Keep Your Side of the Street Clean

Hey Naked Daters!  You’ve probably heard me talk about radical responsibility. Yup, I’m gonna talk about it again. And probably …

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