No modern woman who has worked hard to gain her independence should be hearing messages that tell her to dumb herself down or give her power away to men. Not only that, when women follow these ‘rules,’ they run the risk of attracting the exact kind of men they don’t want to attract, men who are avoidant and get bored once ‘the chase’ is over.
Instead, Lisa teaches her client to take The Feminine Lead. She empowers her women by showing them how to get Emotionally Naked and Mirror a Man’s Masculinity back to him. She also teaches her clients to get past their stereotypes of men and see them as human beings who are just as afraid of rejection as they are.
As a professional fashion photographer for 15 years, she researches and recommends local photographers for her clients so they can get beautiful, natural, professional photographs that capture the attention of quality men.
Then, her husband, Benjamin, writes both a short and long dating profile for each woman. No matter how many compliments a woman has received on her prior profile and pictures, Lisa’s clients are astounded by the increase in the caliber of the men who respond and by the quality of their responses.
In the end, Lisa’s clients go from hating online dating to finding it a fun and rewarding experience. They see each date as a stepping stone to love and an opportunity for growth and learning that is leading them to The Guardian of Their Soul.
"Lisa, you have done so much in helping me form this new stage of my life after the loss of my husband! Loss takes away your language and leaves one speechless. You have to find a new way of being and speaking in this new world. So, that was yours and Benjamin’s contribution, giving me a tongue. If you give someone a language and an ability to speak, it’s like gaining another soul. So thank you for that. I knew I was looking for a Lisa, I just didn’t know you existed. I didn’t have your language when I was married. I had a good marriage, I had an interesting marriage. I would have had an outstanding marriage if I had met you and I had been mature enough to receive what you could have taught me."
"I am celebrating my beautifully written profile! I’ve received several very appreciative responses whether I’m continuing conversations with them or not! Thank you Benjamin for your guidance on this as the prospects are beyond my expectations in quality and quantity! I’m enjoying reading how they express themselves to me! I’ve not experienced that before. One guy said he read my profile 3 times and he was so touched by it."
"I am dating several men and moving at a steady pace. Im enjoying getting to know each of them 🙂 I’m also feeling much calmer than I used to while dating. For example,k one of the men I ma dating is texting me less often. He also rewrote his Bumble profile and put up new pictures. I don’t know if this means he’s losing interest in me. Perhaps he is, perhaps he isn’t. But thanks to everything I’ve learned in this course and thanks to the process, I am not getting upset about it. I will keep dating him and time will tell if we end up together. :)"
"When I started the course on 2/28, I was a hot mess. I was severely attached to my long-distance relationship and was utterly broken and empty inside. Since then, thanks to this course, I have done a 180! A wonderful guy has entered my life, and I think has my Final Five!! He provides me with so much emotional security and everything I couldn’t get from my ex. I just wanted to let you know and to thank you for being in my life…this course has opened up so many possibilities for me. I honestly can’t believe it. xoxo"
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Lisa Shield is a love, dating, and heart-opening expert with nineteen years of experience. Lisa has a master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach through The Coaches Training Institute. She has also done extensive training with Don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements. She has been a featured expert in many media outlets including The Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, LA Times, and Cosmopolitan. She’s been a guest on ABC News and The Millionaire Matchmaker.
Last year, twelve of Lisa’s LA clients were married and she officiated four of those weddings. Her most successful year yet was during the pandemic: where many more of her clients found the partner of their dreams, got engaged and married—proving again, no matter the hurtle, true love really is unstoppable. She and her husband, Benjamin, are passionately in love after nineteen years. They live in Santa Fe, New Mexico with their two dogs, Oliver and Jax.