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LEADING THE

LOVE-OLUTION

Insights, Interviews and Inspiration
In The Press, Podcasts & Publications

What Sets Lisa Apart from

Every Other Dating Coach

You will never hear Lisa talk about games, tactics, or strategies when capturing and keeping the attention of quality men. With a Master’s Degree in Spiritual Psychology, she has created a unique approach that blends spirituality, psychology, and practical common sense to help her clients attract the Guardian of Their Soul.

With a Master’s Degree in Spiritual Psychology, she has created a unique approach that blends spirituality, psychology, and practical common sense to help her clients attract the Guardian of Their Soul. You will never hear Lisa talk about games, tactics, or strategies when capturing and keeping the attention of quality men.

At a time when 33% of all women are out-earning their partners,
it is absurd to tell women to
“lean back and let a man
chase them.”

No modern woman who has worked hard to gain her independence should be hearing messages that tell her to dumb herself down or give her power away to men. Not only that, when women follow these ‘rules,’ they run the risk of attracting the exact kind of men they don’t want to attract, men who are avoidant and get bored once ‘the chase’ is over.

Instead, Lisa teaches her client to take The Feminine Lead. She empowers her women by showing them how to get Emotionally Naked and Mirror a Man’s Masculinity back to him. She also teaches her clients to get past their stereotypes of men and see them as human beings who are just as afraid of rejection as they are.

As her clients develop deep compassion for the opposite sex,
their anxiety completely disappears and they are able
to bring a new level of confidence and self-control to dating.

As her clients develop deep compassion for the opposite sex, their
anxiety completely disappears and they are able to bring a new level
of confidence and self-control to their dating.

Lisa teaches her clients to stop taking anything personally and models how to speak The Language of Love so they can ask for what they need from a man in an inviting and non-shaming way.

One of the signature parts of Lisa’s approach is her attention to
how a woman presents herself on dating apps and websites.

As a professional fashion photographer for 15 years, she researches and recommends local photographers for her clients so they can get beautiful, natural, professional photographs that capture the attention of quality men.

Then, her husband, Benjamin, writes both a short and long dating profile for each woman. No matter how many compliments a woman has received on her prior profile and pictures, Lisa’s clients are astounded by the increase in the caliber of the men who respond and by the quality of their responses.

In the end, Lisa’s clients go from hating online dating to finding it a fun and rewarding experience. They see each date as a stepping stone to love and an opportunity for growth and learning that is leading them to The Guardian of Their Soul.

SPEAKING TOPIC #1

What is The Guardian of Your Soul and How Do You Find Him?

SPEAKING
TOPIC #2

Getting
Emotionally
Naked

Not Just Pillow Talk…

Hear What Amor-ologists
Have To Say About Lisa

"I knew I was looking for a Lisa, I just didn’t know you existed!"

"Lisa, you have done so much in helping me form this new stage of my life after the loss of my husband! Loss takes away your language and leaves one speechless. You have to find a new way of being and speaking in this new world. So, that was yours and Benjamin’s contribution, giving me a tongue. If you give someone a language and an ability to speak, it’s like gaining another soul. So thank you for that. I knew I was looking for a Lisa, I just didn’t know you existed. I didn’t have your language when I was married. I had a good marriage, I had an interesting marriage. I would have had an outstanding marriage if I had met you and I had been mature enough to receive what you could have taught me."

Tina G.
Jewish Life Coach

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"I never would have believed what a difference the right profile can make!"

"I am celebrating my beautifully written profile! I’ve received several very appreciative responses whether I’m continuing conversations with them or not! Thank you Benjamin for your guidance on this as the prospects are beyond my expectations in quality and quantity! I’m enjoying reading how they express themselves to me! I’ve not experienced that before. One guy said he read my profile 3 times and he was so touched by it."

Debbie G.
Retired

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"I can’t believe how calm
I feel about dating!"

"I am dating several men and moving at a steady pace. Im enjoying getting to know each of them 🙂 I’m also feeling much calmer than I used to while dating. For example,k one of the men I ma dating is texting me less often. He also rewrote his Bumble profile and put up new pictures. I don’t know if this means he’s losing interest in me. Perhaps he is, perhaps he isn’t. But thanks to everything I’ve learned in this course and thanks to the process, I am not getting upset about it. I will keep dating him and time will tell if we end up together. :)"

Jessica I.
Lead UX Researcher

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"I can’t fathom how much the first 3 weeks of this course have changed my life already!"

"When I started the course on 2/28, I was a hot mess. I was severely attached to my long-distance relationship and was utterly broken and empty inside. Since then, thanks to this course, I have done a 180! A wonderful guy has entered my life, and I think has my Final Five!! He provides me with so much emotional security and everything I couldn’t get from my ex. I just wanted to let you know and to thank you for being in my life…this course has opened up so many possibilities for me. I honestly can’t believe it. xoxo"

Juliana X.
Financial Planning/Wealth
Management Advisor

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PODCAST, SUMMITS AND

GUEST FEATURES

Play Video

Magnetize the Man Summit
Interview with Anita Boyd

Play Video

It’s Never Too Late…To Hit Reset
and Start Over in Life & Love

Play Video

Lisa Shield – Nobody’s gonna do it for you

Play Video

Naked Dating with Lisa Shield

Play Video

How to Heal a Broken Heart series
with Kate Houston

Play Video

Lisa Shield from Emotionally Naked
Dating and Suzanne Oshima Interview

Play Video

To Find Love Again with an Amazing Man
- Dating Advice for Women Over 50

Play Video

Attraction Alchemy Interview
with Anita Boyd

PUBLISHED

ARTICLES

Lisa Shield: A Passionate Dating & Relationship Coach With Decades of Experience Working With Soulful People

Lisa Shield had been married to a man she describes as a pathological liar for 13 years when she realized she …

Don’t stop dating, even amid COVID-19!

Even amid the uncertainties of the COVID-19 pandemic, you can still continue looking for love and dating through virtual platforms …

Dating & Relationship Coach Lisa Shield Promotes “Emotionally Naked Dating” in a New Program

Dating coach Lisa Shield met her husband on a dating site 16 years ago. Benjamin’s open and kind spirit …

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Speaking Bio

Lisa Shield is a love, dating, and heart-opening expert with nineteen years of experience. Lisa has a master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach through The Coaches Training Institute. She has also done extensive training with Don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements. She has been a featured expert in many media outlets including The Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, LA Times, and Cosmopolitan. She’s been a guest on ABC News and The Millionaire Matchmaker.

Last year, twelve of Lisa’s LA clients were married and she officiated four of those weddings. Her most successful year yet was during the pandemic: where many more of her clients found the partner of their dreams, got engaged and married—proving again, no matter the hurtle, true love really is unstoppable. She and her husband, Benjamin, are passionately in love after nineteen years. They live in Santa Fe, New Mexico with their two dogs, Oliver and Jax.