After two years of reading endless, uninspiring dating profiles, I read my future husband’s. It was so beautifully written, I read it a second time. Each word spoke directly to my heart and made me want to meet him.
In a strange twist of fate, this gifted writer is now writing the online dating profiles for the women who are going through our 12-week course.
Too many people claim to be in the ‘business’ of writing online dating profiles, but no one writes the way Benjamin does.
If you’re looking for marriage and the father of your children, he will put that in the first few lines of your profile.
Perhaps you’re thinking that this will turn many men off…and it will. Benjamin says that the one thing we don’t have is time to waste and it’s better to turn off 99% of the men and only get fewer responses from the ones who are on the same page with you.
Most of our clients have been going on and off the dating sites for years. When they join our course, they are so disillusioned with online dating that they doubt it will work for them.
Here are just a few of the responses they have received:
“I teared up when I read your profile.”
“I read your profile three times, are you for real, and when can we meet?”
“In all the years I have been dating online, I have never read a profile like yours! How about dinner on Saturday?”
The best testament of all to the effectiveness of Benjamin’s profiles is when I interview the partners of the women who have gone through our course, and they say, “I fell in love with her when I read her profile!”
Important Note: This service is only available to those women who are enrolled in our 12-week Emotionally Naked Dating program.
I’m looking for my future partner, my soul mate, someone to feel safe and secure with and have a loving, intimate relationship. Do I have your attention? You certainly have mine. Let’s get to know each other.
To know me is to discover that I’m loving, thoughtful, engaging, funny, passionate, adventurous, happy, fit, appreciative, optimistic, a life-long learner, easy on the eyes, and, well… classy. I love to laugh, and I don’t take myself too seriously.
I’m always thinking of what I can do to make another person’s life better. I support and show up for those close to me, and I practice gratitude, forgiveness, compassion, and improving the world as much as I can.
I believe life should be enjoyed. Seeing the glass at least half full and occasionally overflowing keeps my positive nature humming along. I am the cheery voice over the phone and the loving hug and kiss on your challenging days…and your amazing ones. I’m comfortable in my jeans, silk pajamas, and high heels, but nothing seems comfier than your man shirt – on me.
I love to cook, and I can’t wait to make you amazing dishes. I’m known for my love-induced sauces that transform any meal, and a smile-inducing happy circle grace before each meal.
I luxuriate in sharing quiet moments together, new experiences and adventures, the warmth of the sun on my face, deep powder turns, the smell of espresso the morning, the sound of rain at night, cool, clean sheets, the ocean, anywhere… gazing at it, having time standstill, and even better when your arms are wrapped around me, scuba diving and going down into the deep dark depths where the largest fish and caverns create a mystical experience, loping through a wide-open pasture on a horse, anything Italian, flirty texts that bring a smile to my face, a perfect martini, the changing of the seasons that brings anticipation for something new on the horizon, sensual, soft lips and kisses, and the belief in the kind of love that lasts forever.
What my life is missing… is you. I look forward to us finding each other and to our exciting new chapter ahead. We will have great fun and enjoy each other’s company, whether we are out on a walk, watching a great movie, sharing a wonderful dinner, or traveling the world. Let’s create beautiful memories together.
I’m charmed by an intelligent man with a beautiful mind and old-fashion manners. You will be my hero if you are kind, emotionally available, passionate, trustworthy, adventurous, financially secure, possess self-awareness, and you live with integrity. Bonus points if you have a great sense of humor.
You are a man who has space for me in his heart and in his arms. I will admire that you go after your goals and find space to balance relationship, play, family, and personal time. You know how to give and receive love, and you value commitment. You are motivated to stay healthy and fit so we can spend many happy, quality years together.
I want to learn more about you… and from you… as we share our hearts and life’s experiences, growing together in kindness and intimacy each day. I’ll take pleasure in how we make each other feel so loved, supported, and adored in every way. Our life together will be joyous, deep, drama-free, sweet, fun, romantic, adventurous, tender, playful, and loving. Will you join me?
Together we will be guardians of each other’s souls. We will feel safe and protected and help each other to be the best that we can be on this planet. I will be your biggest supporter, and I will always have your back. We will deeply care for each other, treat each other as equals, learn from each other, and love each other unconditionally. We will keep things fun and fill our little world with big dreams and lots of laughter. If this is your dream as much as mine, let’s dream this together.