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Re-learning the language of love

The REAL Reason You’re Still Single

Every day I talk to women over Zoom about what’s not working in their love lives right now. They will tell me things like: I can’t meet quality men on my level who I want …

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An Ode To Love

Benjamin Shield. I met him 17 years ago. There was a time when I didn’t think it was possible to meet a man like him. Especially not for me. Given my relationship history, my destructive …

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How Many Summers Do You Have?

Living in Los Angeles, the land of eternal summer, it’s easy to forget that real summers go by in a …

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How to Make a Man Feel Like a Man

One of the worst feelings in dating, and in life for that matter, is “not knowing what happened.” I know …

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Taking Personal Responsibility When Dating

If you follow me, you know I like expressions. I feel like deconstructing them provides insight into patterns of human …

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Writing a Love Letter to Your Future Soulmate

When my clients first start working with me, the very first thing I have them do is write a love …

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Stop Telling Yourself “There Are No Good Men”

So, you’re on a quest for mind-bending, soul-quenching, life-lasting love. Sounds like a plan. And you’ve looked and looked and …

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How to Actually Attain Unconditional Love

Ladies, I like making LISTS, can I get a hell yeah?!?! Food lists, to-do lists, call lists, goal lists, you …

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Why You Should Wait to Have Sex

As a woman of a certain age, I can sometimes be found flipping through my “Personal History of Regrets” for …

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The Single Biggest Mistake You’re Making That’s Keeping You Single

You’ve heard the expression, “you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince,” right? Like a lot …

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