Naked Truth: Is Someone You Love Pushing You Away?

Attract the Relationship of your Dreams!

I have a little secret. So, lean in close if you want to hear it.

Every single one of you can attract the relationship of your dreams. You heard me right.

EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU CAN ATTRACT THE RELATIONSHIP OF YOUR DREAMS!

For that to happen, there are just three things you must do.

You must:

• Be CRYSTAL CLEAR about what you want in a partner.
• Have 100% CERTAINTY that he or she is out there.
• And, have the ABSOLUTE CONFIDENCE to go for it.

FIRST: You have to know EXACTLY what kind of partner you want to attract.

You can’t hold COMPETING INTENTIONS or conflicting beliefs about the partner you’re looking for. If you do, your NEGATIVE BELIEFS will always cancel out the positive ones.

If you say you want a safe, kind, loving partner but you keep CHASING THE THRILL of bad boys or bitches, no matter how badly you say you want someone who treats you lovingly and kindly, you will keep attracting the WRONG ONES.

So, pay attention to your EVERY THOUGHT and make sure they are congruent with what you TRULY WANT, not what you don’t want.

SECOND: You must believe WITHOUT A SHADOW OF A DOUBT that your person is out there and that you WON’T COMPROMISE until you find him or her.

Even if you’ve never been in love before.
Even if you’ve never met someone who matches all your criteria.
Even if you have never seen a relationship like the one you want.

You have to BELIEVE with every cell in your being that your person EXISTS.

Ever heard of Mel Fisher? Mel is considered the most famous treasure hunters who ever lived. Mel searched for 16 years before discovering a $400 million treasure buried in a ship that sank in the 1600’s.

During that ENTIRE TIME, people thought he was insane, but Mel never gave up HOPE. He believed with all his heart that it was out there. Even when his son and daughter-in-law died while helping him search, Mel NEVER GAVE UP hope… and neither can YOU!

Just like Mel, you are searching for a HIDDEN TREASURE, for what is arguably the most COVETED of all PRIZES: true and lasting love!

THIRD: You must have the CONFIDENCE to go for it when the right person crosses your path.

If you ask most people out in the dating world, they will tell you that they’re ready to meet The One, but they’re not. If that person came into their life RIGHT NOW, their insecurities and lack of confidence would cause them to SABOTAGE it.

In fact, most of you are probably meeting GREAT PROSPECTS all the time, but you are not drawing these people in because you aren’t READY. Not for the kind of relationship you REALLY want.

When I first started dating, I know for A FACT that my current husband would NOT have been attracted to me. I knew that the kind of man I wanted would not want to date me back then. I still had a lot of GROWING UP to do.

So, I used my dating experience to help me LEARN about men, get a grip on my emotions, and become a kinder and more loving woman.

Dating was HARD, but it was hard because I had a lot to learn. I had to work through my own insecurities so I could stop taking things so personally and have the COURAGE to go for the relationship I really wanted.

Many people don’t understand that dating is a PROCESS where you are preparing yourself in every moment for The One. Dating isn’t hard. We make it hard because we get upset when things don’t go our way. Rejection isn’t easy, but when you can learn how to STOP rejecting yourself when things don’t go your way, you will be TRULY READY to open your heart and your world to another person.

I don’t know if others feel this way, but I have the sense that my husband DIDN’T EXIST until the moment I met him. As crazy as that might sound, this thought has occurred to me many times. My imagination, my unwavering faith, and my belief in myself were what created my perfect partner out of NOTHINGNESS. The truth is that, in my reality, he didn’t exist until the moment I met him.

So, DON’T hold back. BELIEVE with all your heart that this possible, that you can DREAM your partner into existence by having clarity, conviction, and confidence.

See every dating challenge as an opportunity to prepare yourself and become even KINDER, more LOVING and more EMOTIONALLY GROUNDED, so that when this person crosses your path you will be ready to step into the relationship of YOUR DREAMS.

XO,
LISA

P.S. Don’t forget to check out my Free Online Workshop!

The Most Attractive Quality a Woman Can Have

 

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Do know what is the most attractive quality a woman can have?

 

It’s not independence, sensuality, or even self-love–but it includes all of those things. The most attractive quality a woman can have is CONFIDENCE because a confident woman owns who she is and she knows she can attract the man she desires and deserves.

People will tell you that the reason you don’t have the love you want is because your expectations are too high. They say you’re asking for too much. This is simply isn’t true. The real reason you don’t have the relationship you want is because you haven’t had the confidence to ask for it.

True love is REAL and You can have it. All you have to do is:

Ask clearly for what you want…

Be willing to compromise when you can…

Speak your truth even if it means someone won’t like you…

Walk away when you know that someone isn’t right for you…

And continue to love yourself even in the face of rejection.

But how can you possibly open your heart and trust again when you’ve been lied to, abused, or cheated on before?

To have the love you deserve, you need confidence. You need to love and value yourself enough to have the courage to go for your heart’s desire.

But how do you get the confidence to do that… especially in the crazy-making dating world of today?

To answer this question, my friend and fellow relationship coach, Jeannine Addonisio, has invited me along with 25 other experts to be part of an awesome online interview series called The Confident Woman! 

This event is dedicated to helping YOU get your confidence on, rock out dating and attract a man who cherishes, desires and adores you! To sign up for this inspiring interview airing Sunday, November 13th, 2016, click here: http://jeannineaddonisio.com/theconfidentwoman/lisashield

Don’t miss my interview if you want to hear how I found the confidence to become one of the pioneers of online dating and go on 100 first dates before finding the love of my life.

Ladies, sixteen years ago, when I posted an online dating profile, there were no friends, dating experts or advice columns to cheer me on and tell me what to do. I walked through this uncharted territory—alone!

Check out my talk to find out how to stop buying into other people’s limiting beliefs about how bizarre it is to look for your soul mate on a computer screen or how you’re searching for a needle in a haystack because you want too much. These ideas are negative and they’re absolutely untrue.

Tune in to discover how getting Emotionally Naked and embracing the challenges of dating–both on and offline—can transform you into a confident, compassionate, compelling woman! When you do this, something truly remarkable happens: You will meet the man of your dreams, and HE will fall in love with YOU!

And this time you’ll be ready. This time you’ll have the confidence to open your heart and receive all the love this amazing man has to offer.

So, join Jeannine Addonisio and me to hear us talk about how to become your most confident self so you can find the love of your life and say goodbye to dating forever… Can I get an Amen to that? Click here to join this FREE Online Event and Gift Giveaway: http://jeannineaddonisio.com/theconfidentwoman/lisashield

You don’t want to miss this opportunity to hear the secrets of how to use dating as the catalyst for gaining genuine confidence and attracting the man of your dreams!

This interview is big… it’s powerful… it will change your life!

As always, I want to thank you for all of your love and support!  And if you haven’t joined my Facebook Group, Dating Without Drama, the definitive dating group where both women AND men share their struggles about how to date and relate while searching for their perfect mate, click here to join:  http://bit.ly/2esIwea

Xx,

The Confident Woman Interview Series

The REAL Reason You Haven’t Found Your Soul Mate…

 and NO, It Isn’t Self-Love

The REAL Reason You Haven't Found Your Soul Mate...

 

Hi Everybody!

Do you long to meet your soul mate with every cell in your being?

Do you dream of finding one, beautiful man who will love and cherish you forever?

Even if you’ve never had it, something deep inside you knows true love exists. You can feel it. You can feel your soul aching for your other half, for one man who thrills you and who is yours and yours alone.

I know other people will tell you’re asking for too much, but you’re not. True love is real and YOU can have it! All you have to do is have the courage to…

Ask clearly for what you want…

Be willing to compromise when you can…

Speak your truth even if it means someone won’t like you…

Walk away when you know that someone isn’t right for you…

And continue to love yourself even in the face of rejection.

But how can you possibly open your heart and trust again when you’ve been lied to, abused, or cheated on before?

To have the love you deserve, you need to possess one important quality: CONFIDENCE. You need to love and value yourself enough to have the courage to go for your heart’s desire.

But how do you get the confidence to do that… especially in the crazy-making dating world of today?

To answer this question, my friend and fellow relationship coach, Jeannine Addonisio, has invited me along with 25 other experts to be part of an awesome online interview series called The Confident Woman! 

This event is dedicated to helping YOU get your confidence on, rock out dating and attract a man who cherishes, desires and adores you! To sign up for this inspiring interview airing Sunday, November 13th, 2016, click here: http://jeannineaddonisio.com/theconfidentwoman/lisashield

Don’t miss my interview if you want to hear how I found the confidence to become one of the pioneers of online dating and go on 100 first dates before finding the love of my life.

Ladies, sixteen years ago, when I posted an online dating profile, there were no friends, dating experts or advice columns to cheer me on and tell me what to do. I walked through this uncharted territory—alone!

Check out my talk to find out how to stop buying into other people’s limiting beliefs about how bizarre it is to look for your soul mate on a computer screen or how you’re searching for a needle in a haystack because you want too much. These ideas are negative and they’re absolutely untrue.

Tune in to discover how getting Emotionally Naked and embracing the challenges of dating–both on and offline—can transform you into a confident, compassionate, compelling woman! When you do this, something truly remarkable happens: You will meet the man of your dreams, and HE will fall in love with YOU!

And this time you’ll be ready. This time you’ll have the confidence to open your heart and receive all the love this amazing man has to offer.

So, join Jeannine Addonisio and me to hear us talk about how to become your most confident self so you can find the love of your life and say goodbye to dating forever… Can I get an Amen to that? Click here to join this FREE Online Event and Gift Giveaway: http://jeannineaddonisio.com/theconfidentwoman/lisashield

You don’t want to miss this opportunity to hear the secrets of how to use dating as the catalyst for gaining genuine confidence and attracting the man of your dreams!

This interview is big… it’s powerful… it will change your life!

As always, I want to thank you for all of your love and support!  And if you haven’t joined my Facebook Group, Dating Without Drama, the definitive dating group where both women AND men share their struggles about how to date and relate while searching for their perfect mate, click here to join:  http://bit.ly/2esIwea

Xx,

 

 

Listen to the Best Interview I’ve Ever Done!

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Don’t miss my NEW Online Interview!

Hi Everybody!

Please sign up to hear the best interview I’ve ever done! I know everlasting love is what you seek. It’s what we all seek, and it takes courage, confidence, and inspiration to get back out there in the world of dating after you have been hurt in love and yearn to find it again.

As part of my commitment to support you in finding the love you desire, I am here to share an opportunity with you.

Whether you are divorced and single again, single and just haven’t found the right one yet, have had a lot of heartbreak in love, and are looking to find the strength to open up and put yourself back out there again, then you need to hear an interview series I’m participating in with my friend and colleague, Intuitive Relationship & Marriage Coach, Susan Ortolano.

In this interview series we talk about how people can move past the pain of heartbreak, and what it takes to get back out there in dating-land and find love again, for good this time.

Susan is also interviewing over 20 other accomplished relationship and love Experts. And she’s putting it all together in a FREE online event called Manifesting Love Again- How to get back into your groove and finally find the love of your life. I am thrilled to be a part of it!

If that title gives you even a little twinge of excitement, then you’re meant to be there. The event begins October 10th so come join us and discover what you need – the tips, the secrets, and tools to move beyond your past and look ahead to a future filled with hope for love and for the ideal relationship you seek. Here is how to claim your spot for this incredible event now!

Just Click Here To Claim Your FREE Spot!

During this Series you will discover:

  • What you need to do to gain the courage and confidence to get back into the dating world again after heartbreak.
  • Effective and current top notch dating and love tips you need to know, especially if you haven’t dated in a while.
  • How to shift your mindset, up your style, feel more attractive, sexy, and be a magnet for love at any age!
  • Why it is important not to give up on love no matter what and no matter how old you are!
  • How to stay inspired to get back into your groove, hold your head high, and open your heart again.
  • How sex & intimacy factor into the dating process
  • (feel free to add your topic)
  • And so much more!

I am excited to participate in this free online event to continue to help YOU put your heart out there again and find the love that you seek.

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Honestly, it is an opportunity of a lifetime to get free training in this series featuring me along with some of the top love and relationship experts around.

Reserve your spot now for this inspirational and educational series, and take the next step to Manifest Love Again!

>>>>>(Just Click Here To Claim Your FREE Spot!

 

Much love and many thanks for your support!

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