The Most Attractive Quality a Woman Can Have

The Most Attractive Quality a Woman Can Have

 

The Most Attractive Quality a Woman Can HaveThe Most Attractive Quality a Woman Can Have

Do know what is the most attractive quality a woman can have?

 

It’s not independence, sensuality, or even self-love–but it includes all of those things. The most attractive quality a woman can have is CONFIDENCE because a confident woman owns who she is and she knows she can attract the man she desires and deserves.

People will tell you that the reason you don’t have the love you want is because your expectations are too high. They say you’re asking for too much. This is simply isn’t true. The real reason you don’t have the relationship you want is because you haven’t had the confidence to ask for it.

True love is REAL and You can have it. All you have to do is:

Ask clearly for what you want…

Be willing to compromise when you can…

Speak your truth even if it means someone won’t like you…

Walk away when you know that someone isn’t right for you…

And continue to love yourself even in the face of rejection.

But how can you possibly open your heart and trust again when you’ve been lied to, abused, or cheated on before?

To have the love you deserve, you need confidence. You need to love and value yourself enough to have the courage to go for your heart’s desire.

But how do you get the confidence to do that… especially in the crazy-making dating world of today?

To answer this question, my friend and fellow relationship coach, Jeannine Addonisio, has invited me along with 25 other experts to be part of an awesome online interview series called The Confident Woman! 

This event is dedicated to helping YOU get your confidence on, rock out dating and attract a man who cherishes, desires and adores you! To sign up for this inspiring interview airing Sunday, November 13th, 2016, click here: http://jeannineaddonisio.com/theconfidentwoman/lisashield

Don’t miss my interview if you want to hear how I found the confidence to become one of the pioneers of online dating and go on 100 first dates before finding the love of my life.

Ladies, sixteen years ago, when I posted an online dating profile, there were no friends, dating experts or advice columns to cheer me on and tell me what to do. I walked through this uncharted territory—alone!

Check out my talk to find out how to stop buying into other people’s limiting beliefs about how bizarre it is to look for your soul mate on a computer screen or how you’re searching for a needle in a haystack because you want too much. These ideas are negative and they’re absolutely untrue.

Tune in to discover how getting Emotionally Naked and embracing the challenges of dating–both on and offline—can transform you into a confident, compassionate, compelling woman! When you do this, something truly remarkable happens: You will meet the man of your dreams, and HE will fall in love with YOU!

And this time you’ll be ready. This time you’ll have the confidence to open your heart and receive all the love this amazing man has to offer.

So, join Jeannine Addonisio and me to hear us talk about how to become your most confident self so you can find the love of your life and say goodbye to dating forever… Can I get an Amen to that? Click here to join this FREE Online Event and Gift Giveaway: http://jeannineaddonisio.com/theconfidentwoman/lisashield

You don’t want to miss this opportunity to hear the secrets of how to use dating as the catalyst for gaining genuine confidence and attracting the man of your dreams!

This interview is big… it’s powerful… it will change your life!

As always, I want to thank you for all of your love and support!  And if you haven’t joined my Facebook Group, Dating Without Drama, the definitive dating group where both women AND men share their struggles about how to date and relate while searching for their perfect mate, click here to join:  http://bit.ly/2esIwea

Xx,

The Confident Woman Interview Series

The REAL Reason You Haven’t Found Your Soul Mate…

 and NO, It Isn’t Self-Love

The REAL Reason You Haven't Found Your Soul Mate...

 

Hi Everybody!

Do you long to meet your soul mate with every cell in your being?

Do you dream of finding one, beautiful man who will love and cherish you forever?

Even if you’ve never had it, something deep inside you knows true love exists. You can feel it. You can feel your soul aching for your other half, for one man who thrills you and who is yours and yours alone.

I know other people will tell you’re asking for too much, but you’re not. True love is real and YOU can have it! All you have to do is have the courage to…

Ask clearly for what you want…

Be willing to compromise when you can…

Speak your truth even if it means someone won’t like you…

Walk away when you know that someone isn’t right for you…

And continue to love yourself even in the face of rejection.

But how can you possibly open your heart and trust again when you’ve been lied to, abused, or cheated on before?

To have the love you deserve, you need to possess one important quality: CONFIDENCE. You need to love and value yourself enough to have the courage to go for your heart’s desire.

But how do you get the confidence to do that… especially in the crazy-making dating world of today?

To answer this question, my friend and fellow relationship coach, Jeannine Addonisio, has invited me along with 25 other experts to be part of an awesome online interview series called The Confident Woman! 

This event is dedicated to helping YOU get your confidence on, rock out dating and attract a man who cherishes, desires and adores you! To sign up for this inspiring interview airing Sunday, November 13th, 2016, click here: http://jeannineaddonisio.com/theconfidentwoman/lisashield

Don’t miss my interview if you want to hear how I found the confidence to become one of the pioneers of online dating and go on 100 first dates before finding the love of my life.

Ladies, sixteen years ago, when I posted an online dating profile, there were no friends, dating experts or advice columns to cheer me on and tell me what to do. I walked through this uncharted territory—alone!

Check out my talk to find out how to stop buying into other people’s limiting beliefs about how bizarre it is to look for your soul mate on a computer screen or how you’re searching for a needle in a haystack because you want too much. These ideas are negative and they’re absolutely untrue.

Tune in to discover how getting Emotionally Naked and embracing the challenges of dating–both on and offline—can transform you into a confident, compassionate, compelling woman! When you do this, something truly remarkable happens: You will meet the man of your dreams, and HE will fall in love with YOU!

And this time you’ll be ready. This time you’ll have the confidence to open your heart and receive all the love this amazing man has to offer.

So, join Jeannine Addonisio and me to hear us talk about how to become your most confident self so you can find the love of your life and say goodbye to dating forever… Can I get an Amen to that? Click here to join this FREE Online Event and Gift Giveaway: http://jeannineaddonisio.com/theconfidentwoman/lisashield

You don’t want to miss this opportunity to hear the secrets of how to use dating as the catalyst for gaining genuine confidence and attracting the man of your dreams!

This interview is big… it’s powerful… it will change your life!

As always, I want to thank you for all of your love and support!  And if you haven’t joined my Facebook Group, Dating Without Drama, the definitive dating group where both women AND men share their struggles about how to date and relate while searching for their perfect mate, click here to join:  http://bit.ly/2esIwea

Xx,

 

 

Listen to the Best Interview I’ve Ever Done!

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Don’t miss my NEW Online Interview!

Hi Everybody!

Please sign up to hear the best interview I’ve ever done! I know everlasting love is what you seek. It’s what we all seek, and it takes courage, confidence, and inspiration to get back out there in the world of dating after you have been hurt in love and yearn to find it again.

As part of my commitment to support you in finding the love you desire, I am here to share an opportunity with you.

Whether you are divorced and single again, single and just haven’t found the right one yet, have had a lot of heartbreak in love, and are looking to find the strength to open up and put yourself back out there again, then you need to hear an interview series I’m participating in with my friend and colleague, Intuitive Relationship & Marriage Coach, Susan Ortolano.

In this interview series we talk about how people can move past the pain of heartbreak, and what it takes to get back out there in dating-land and find love again, for good this time.

Susan is also interviewing over 20 other accomplished relationship and love Experts. And she’s putting it all together in a FREE online event called Manifesting Love Again- How to get back into your groove and finally find the love of your life. I am thrilled to be a part of it!

If that title gives you even a little twinge of excitement, then you’re meant to be there. The event begins October 10th so come join us and discover what you need – the tips, the secrets, and tools to move beyond your past and look ahead to a future filled with hope for love and for the ideal relationship you seek. Here is how to claim your spot for this incredible event now!

Just Click Here To Claim Your FREE Spot!

During this Series you will discover:

  • What you need to do to gain the courage and confidence to get back into the dating world again after heartbreak.
  • Effective and current top notch dating and love tips you need to know, especially if you haven’t dated in a while.
  • How to shift your mindset, up your style, feel more attractive, sexy, and be a magnet for love at any age!
  • Why it is important not to give up on love no matter what and no matter how old you are!
  • How to stay inspired to get back into your groove, hold your head high, and open your heart again.
  • How sex & intimacy factor into the dating process
  • (feel free to add your topic)
  • And so much more!

I am excited to participate in this free online event to continue to help YOU put your heart out there again and find the love that you seek.

Just Click Here To Claim Your FREE Spot!

Honestly, it is an opportunity of a lifetime to get free training in this series featuring me along with some of the top love and relationship experts around.

Reserve your spot now for this inspirational and educational series, and take the next step to Manifest Love Again!

>>>>>(Just Click Here To Claim Your FREE Spot!

 

Much love and many thanks for your support!

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Naked Truth: Do Both Partners Have to Work on the Relationship Together?

Naked Truth: Do Both Partners Have to Work on the Relationship Together?

Naked Truth: Do Both Partners Have to Work on the Relationship Together?

I recently started coaching a couple I’ll call Jake and Ashley. Jake can sometimes be a bit aggressive in the way he gives Ashley feedback. When he does this, Ashley gets reactive because she feels she’s being attacked and blamed for something she did wrong. On numerous occasions in our sessions Jake has sworn this isn’t the case. He isn’t “mad” at her. It’s just that he often doesn’t always have the wherewithal to approach her in a gentle way. He’s working on it, but he admits that he can come across somewhat anxious and abrasive at times.

Recently, Ashley came to see me for a private session. She had a list of incidents where Jake had “attacked” her and set her off. She was also hurt because she felt that this was Jake’s issue. He was the one who was abrasive. So, why did she have to be the one to stop reacting? Shouldn’t he be coming to coaching to work on himself?

Here’s what I told her:

  1. This isn’t an either or situation. Jake should work on his delivery just as much as she needs to work on her reactivity. Both are true.
  2. Usually in a couple, there is one person with a higher level of emotional intelligence. Often that person is the woman. Women are more naturally inclined to focus on their personal and emotional growth. This doesn’t mean the other partner should get a hall pass and not have to work on himself, it just means that one partner is able to grasp issues in the relationship faster and that partner is more likely to be the one to make the changes that are needed to balance out the emotional dynamics in the couple. In this case, Ashley is that person.
  3. It’s not true that two people have to work on a relationship together. When one partner makes changes, the other partner is also forced to change. So, just because one partner doesn’t like going to coaching, it doesn’t mean that the relationship is doomed. Each partner in a relationship has different strengths. You want to leverage those strengths. If one person is the primary breadwinner, the other person can focus more on maintaining the emotional stability in the relationship. Susan Page, one of my favorite authors, wrote a book on this very subject: How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together.
  4. Finally, I offered Ashley this solution drawn from my own rather peaceful marriage. Whenever my husband is giving me feedback and I start to feel defensive, I calm myself by reminding myself of the following:

He chose me out of all the women in the world to be his partner, he loves me dearly, and I need to trust that his intentions are good and that any feedback he’s giving me is for the betterment of us and our relationship.

One of the many things I admire most about Ashley is how open and coachable she is. She agreed that she has more of bandwidth for personal growth than Jake. She was also willing to let go of the idea that they both had to be working on the relationship. They still come in for joint sessions, but she is also coming in once a week to do some additional work on her own. In our last joint sessions, when I filled Jake in on what Ashley and I had talked about, he said, “I really liked that part about what you said say to yourself when you start to feel defensive with your husband. When Ashley starts to get upset with me, I am going to remind myself that she loves me, that she chose me out of all the men in the world to be her partner, and that she means well.” When I looked over at Ashley, she was beaming.

 

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