How to Find Unconditional Love

“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference. -Robert Frost. "

You’ve read the books, listened to a number of podcasts, and attended workshops, all in the name of searching for true love. And not just true love but unconditional love. The love you’ve been waiting for your whole life.  But for some reason you can’t find it.

Maybe you don’t think finding unconditional love is possible. Maybe you think it doesn’t really exist.

The “Less-Traveled” Road

Well, let me tell you: it does. And I know this to be true because I have it. I’m married to a man who gives me unconditional love everyday. But it wasn’t something that fell into my life. Like the quote above, in order to find my unconditional love, I had to go on the road less traveled.

The road less traveled meant that in order for me to find someone who was going to love me unconditionally, I would have to first learn how to love him unconditionally. So off I went on my untraveled road, which had me going on nearly 100 first dates. I went on 96 dates with 96 different men, and at the end of each date, I would sit back and I would ask myself, "Can I love this man unconditionally? Can I accept him exactly the way he is?" And if the answer that came back to me was no, then I knew it wasn't a match, and I moved on.

Finding a True ‘Hell Yes!’  

They weren’t horrible dates. Many of those men were lovely people. But I wanted, as one of my client says, a true hell yes. I didn't want an okay or a maybe. And so, I was willing to go on as many dates as I had to. I was willing to go down that road less traveled and keep saying no, and no, and no, until I felt that one true hell yes. Until I met my true and unconditional love.

So when Benjamin sat down in front of me, I got that feeling. I knew that this man was different, that this man was extraordinary. I didn't know how our lives were going to fit together, I had no roadmap for this --  it was the road less traveled. There was nothing about it that felt familiar. There was nothing about him that felt familiar. I was wise enough by then to know that that was a really good thing. Because what had been familiar to me in the past hadn't worked. It hadn't been the right person. It hadn’t been Benjamin.

I looked at him and I knew. I just knew in my heart of hearts, in the depths of my soul, that this man was extraordinary, and that I could trust him. That there was something special here. That this was the road I wanted to go down, even though I didn't have a precedent or a map for it.

Sixteen years later I'm happier and more fulfilled than when we first met. I love him more. The sex is better, our conversations are even deeper, the connection is profound. I trusted my gut, and the untraveled road led me to him.

Do You Have the Courage to Travel an Unfamiliar Path?

This is what I want for you. I want you to go down that road less traveled. I want you to listen to yourself and to your inner wisdom. I want you to give yourself permission to pass on some people who may not be right for you, and not agonize over this. It's okay if you pass on a few really good men. You can still date and meet some wonderful people. And if they're not right, they're not right. That's okay. You'll meet somebody, he's out there. You have to trust your inner knowing. You want that Hell Yes! And when I say hell yes, I don't mean that it's going to be fireworks and butterflies. It's a different kind of feeling. I want you to know that it's not over the top. It's not some, "Oh, my God, I met him." It's a knowing inside of you that this is right, that we're meant to be together. That there's something different here. It won't feel like anything you've ever felt before.

Because you deserve to experience that, and I know that it’s out there for you. I know it because I’m living it everyday. I see how much Benjamin loves me and how much he sees who I am as a person. That all came from me being willing to love and accept him exactly the way he is. It's been an extraordinary journey going down that road less traveled. And when I did, I found Benjamin and I found unconditional love. This is what I want for you.

That’s why I’ve created a beautiful webinar called “How to Conquer the Dating world in Five Simple Steps and Attract a Man who will Cherish You, Adore you and Love You Forever... even if you've never been in a successful relationship.” This is my gift to you. Please go to lisashield.ly/FreeTraining to sign up. Your unconditional love is out there waiting for him to find you.

XO,