As the pandemic drones on and most of us are still quarantining or social distancing to some degree or other, our reliance on the apps and online dating sites is higher than ever.
I know this isn’t what many of you want to hear but, right now, this is the only way my clients are getting dates.
We don’t know how long the pandemic is going to last, but we do know that being single and alone during COVID isn’t fun.
What you REALLY want is to be snuggling on the couch with your sweetheart, sharing a bottle of wine, and dreaming about what you are going to create together with this magical life you’ve been given.
If you’re like many women, COVID has been the wake-up call you’ve needed to get your butt in gear and do something about finding your guy. It’s forced you to stop distracting yourself with work, girlfriends, and family and see that you have to make dating and finding love a priority.
But how to get dates?
I know if you follow me, you are one smart cookie. (I just Googled that phrase to see where it came from!) You know that you didn’t get to where you are in life because it was handed to you on a silver platter.
No successful, attractive, intelligent, put-together woman wants to date online. That’s a fact. But sometimes we have to put our big girl panties on and, as the Nike ads say, “Just do it!”
So here’s the GREAT news! Even if you’ve tried online dating in the past and it “didn’t work for you,” that doesn’t mean it can’t work for you now.
Nearly every woman I coach told me when we first started working together that she hates online dating and that it doesn’t work for her.
Here’s what I said to these women: “If it has worked for millions of people (including me), it can work for you too. You just need to learn the right way to do it. I don’t care if hundreds of men told you they loved your profile and pictures, if you weren’t attracting the right men, it doesn’t matter what they told you.”
There is so much more to dating successfully online than you could ever imagine. And if you don’t know how to do it right, you are throwing away the most precious thing you have: your time.
Let me lay this out for you, so you can really understand what I am saying.
Einstein said, “You can’t solve a problem with the same mind that created the problem.”
So, the first step in successfully dating online is to change your mindset about dating.
This means that you have to truly understand the mistakes YOU’VE been making and you must have clarity on how to make different choices going forward.
To do that, I have my clients take a one-month dating hiatus so they can gain a new perspective on how the dating process really works. During this month, they take a very serious and deep look at all of their past relationships and the mistakes they have been making. Then, I help them get clear on what they must look for in their life partner.
Next, I guide them on what photos they need. As a former professional fashion photographer, this is something I know a thing or two about! 😉
Finally, they write their profiles according to my format and then my husband, Benjamin, rewrites their profiles for them from the perspective of a quality man. These profiles are worth their weight in gold!
By the time they get back out into the dating world, my clients are actually excited to date and they are astounded by the responses they get from men!
Don’t believe me? Then hear it from them…
(These are just five out of the hundreds of messages from my clients about the difference their profiles make. )
Can you just hire Benjamin to write your profile? Nope.
You and I both know that this is just one essential part of a bigger process. Let’s just say that, if you only got a new profile, it would be like choosing to only reading one of the required books for your Master’s degree program.
If you want to learn how to date during the pandemic and find true love for the rest of your life, then watch my FREE 45-minute presentation. If you fit the criteria, let’s jump on a call right away so I can show you how to conquer the online dating world and change your love life forever!