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I’ve received wonderful responses from many of you saying this information is enlightening.
I’ve also received messages from women who were outraged and want to continue putting all the blame on men.
When you do that, you throw your power away!
Sure, there’s a lot men can do to improve the way they relate to us, but you can’t change other people.
The one person you have the power to change is YOU.
If you’re like most of my clients, you’re a powerful, ambitious woman who has accomplished almost everything she wants in life.
It is NOT your style to sit back and blame others for what’s not working.
You look at a situation, assess what you need to do to get the job done and do it.
Dating is no different.
You have tremendous power with men, way more than you could ever imagine… if you know how to harness that power and use it in the right way.
Right now, you are literally throwing away one opportunity after another and you don’t even know it.
By using my tried-and-true techniques for creating a deep emotional connection with men, my female clients are astounded by how easy it is to attract a steady stream of high quality, relationship-ready men who have no trouble opening up to them.
With that said, let’s look at another huge mistake women make that turns off men: being in your head, and not in your heart.
Most women I coach have been in the business world so long they treat their dates like a job interview.
They are quick to tell me, “I can talk to anyone. That’s what I do all day at work.”
I don’t doubt that you are a wonderful conversationalist.
But if your first dates never turn into second or third dates, it’s because you are so focused on assessing if this man is worthy of your time and trouble and figuring out what he’s “looking for in a relationship” that you are taking all the fun out of it.
How many times have you walked away from a first meeting with a new man feeling like you were pulling teeth?
That’s because you were in your head the whole time…and so was he.
When you’re in your head, there is no room for playfulness, fun, and spontaneity.
These are the magic ingredients for sparking a connection, the kind of connection that brings a man into his heart and makes him want to open up with you.
After each bad date, you tell yourself, “Why do I keep attracting all these emotionally unavailable men?”
You might not believe me right now, but they aren’t all emotionally blocked.
In fact, most men have few people they feel comfortable opening up to, and they are craving this kind of connection.
They just aren’t connecting with YOU.
In just a few short weeks, I can show you how to open your heart and create a deep, playful, emotionally naked connection so you will have your pick of amazing men.
Click this link to watch my FREE 45-minute presentation to learn more.
If you like what you hear, you can jump on a call with one of my team members or me so we can show you how to get this solved.
The Guardian of Your Soul is looking for you right now.
Let us help you open your heart so he can find you!