Welcome back to another episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®! Today, we are diving into the world of relationships, exploring the mysterious dynamics between men and women. Join me and Benjamin, as we unravel the gender-related complexities of dating.
In this episode, Benjamin shares anecdotes from his 21-year relationship, reflecting on the advice he once received from a trusted attorney friend. As he delves into the fears of commitment that both men and women experience, he sheds light on the underlying factors that contribute to these hesitations. We explore the delicate balance of personal growth within a relationship and the challenges of expectations, societal pressure, and historical baggage. With a mix of personal experiences and thought-provoking insights, we dig deep into the intricacies of commitment, unraveling the reasons behind fears and hesitations.
So, grab your favorite beverage, settle in, and get ready for an eye-opening, heartfelt conversation. It’s time to unlock the secrets of love, trust, and commitment on this episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®.
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What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
– Fears of engulfment and abandonment
– Concerns about compromising and sacrificing in a relationship
– Influences from personal preferences, societal pressure, and family/friends’ expectations
– Exploring men’s fears in relationships
– Women’s desire for traditional dynamics despite independence
– Importance of being whole and complete before entering a relationship
– Avoiding agendas and milestones in relationships
– Potential mismatches and challenges in relationships
– Fully committing to a soulful relationship
– Honoring and seeing the goodness in each other
– Supporting each other’s soul’s journey
Key quotes:
- “To be in a Guardian of Your Soul relationship, you can’t have an agenda…You have to be whole and complete in yourself so you can drop your agenda.” — Lisa Shield
- “Some women really find themselves quickly at the finish line, and they’re waiting for their partner to catch up.” — Benjamin Shield
- “I think that one of a man’s fears is that [by] getting into a relationship, a committed relationship, like engagement, marriage, his life is going to be smaller.” — Benjamin Shield
- “I don’t think two people should get married unless they’re fully committed to what we call a Guardian of Your Soul relationship, where both people so honor each other and see the goodness.'” — Benjamin Shield
- “If you want to find the Guardian of Your Soul, they are out there.” — Lisa Shield
Continue On Your Journey:
Lisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With Lisa
Email the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com
