You’ve mastered every part of your life — but when it comes to men, the rules can feel blurry. In this powerful episode of Getting Inside the Right Male Mind, Lisa and Benjamin Shield uncover the three fears most men won’t admit about love — fears that quietly shape how they connect, commit, and communicate.
You’ll learn why emotionally intelligent, successful men sometimes pull away, how “disappointing a woman” can feel like shame to a man, and what true emotional safety looks like when a man finally opens up.
This conversation isn’t about decoding men to play games — it’s about understanding their psychology so you can build deeper, more authentic relationships without giving up your own power.
In this episode, Lisa and Benjamin Shield explore:
-The three biggest fears men face in relationships — losing independence, disappointing a woman, and emotional vulnerability.
-Why even strong, loving men can feel trapped or judged — and how that impacts their ability to commit.
-The emotional difference between “disappointing” and “shaming” a man (and why one word can shut him down).
-How to create emotional safety that makes men want to open up, instead of withdraw.
-The art of communicating boundaries and appreciation without losing your authenticity or feminine power.
Key Takeaway:
Understanding what drives men emotionally doesn’t mean shrinking yourself to fit their needs — it means mastering the dynamics that allow two powerful people to thrive together.
Tune in for an eye-opening dialogue that helps successful women elevate love with the same intelligence and self-awareness they bring to every other part of their lives.

