How Do Men Really Decide If You’re “The One”?
Every woman has wondered what makes a man truly commit — beyond chemistry or shared goals. In this episode of Getting Inside the Right Male Mind, Lisa and Benjamin Shield reveal what actually goes through a man’s mind when deciding if a woman is long-term material.
You’ll learn how powerful men recognize respect, what emotional safety looks like from their perspective, and how to show interest without losing your feminine energy. If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why didn’t it work, even when it felt right?” — this episode gives you the missing lens.
How do men know when a woman is “the one” — and what makes them decide to commit for the long term? In this revealing conversation, Lisa and Benjamin Shield unpack one of the biggest mysteries in dating: how men truly evaluate compatibility, emotional safety, and respect.
You’ll discover:
-The subtle signals men look for when deciding if a woman is long-term material
-Why emotional safety and respect matter more than chemistry or shared goals
-The difference between liking a woman and seeing a future with her
-How to express vulnerability in a way that draws a man closer — not pushes him away
-What successful, self-aware women unknowingly do that can make high-quality men pull back
This episode offers a rare look inside the real decision-making process of emotionally available men — and shows how to meet them at that level with authenticity and confidence.
