COUPLES Coaching

Imagine if you could end the pain and suffering that comes from a lack of connection and love. Imagine having untold love for yourself, for your partner, and from your partner in a lasting relationship.

When coaching couples, I look at your relationship from three perspectives: you, your partner, and the relationship itself. Together we will explore important aspects of the relationship in terms of what's best—not just for each individual, but for the relationship as a whole. As we explore your common complaints, repeated patterns, and unfulfilled expectations, you begin to take responsibility for your part in what works and what doesn't, you and your partner align, and the relationship grows stronger. Instead of feeling that you need to pull away from your partner, you learn to lean in and the relationship begins to come together instead of apart. Two lives merge into one, and love and romance flourish.

I can effectively coach either one or both members of a couple. The goal is to bring loving awareness to the relationship so healing can begin, and while one partner can't do the other's work, by changing their own behavior they can effect change in their partner's behavior. You'll learn how to:

Support your partner's growth with love and compassion

Own your reactions

See your relationship as a vehicle for your own growth and learning

Know when to stay and when to leave a relationship

Stay when you are hurt and want to leave as a way
of punishing your partner

Resolve conflicts with one conversation instead of many,
and accept the answer you hear

Allow your partner to be right